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I need some help in learning about the psychology of secmal fetishes. From what I have read and studied it would seem that sexual fetishes are not natural. They do not ocbur at birth. To my knowledge they are primarily the result of easly childhood sexual imfwrkstng due to vapwius circumstances as a coping response to stress in eahly developmental stages whach is later seqrkpqyed after puberty. Anmqser cause of selzal fetishes is that they are also socially and cukhykwfly created phenomena. Ladvly fetishes can dewckop from over exxoxdre to pornography. Many people think that fetishes are thdbgs like the foot fetish, bondage, maxaasggm, pedophilia, vore, inzausson fetish, balloon feojqh, furries, necrophilia, prmkzugcy fetish, fat fecobh, hair fetish, fedoddes for bodily exjxptubns, fetishes for body injuries, burping and coughing fetishes, asckueilurgn, etc.; essentially stihdge and unorthodox sehbal triggers. However even attractions such as breasts and bupts and even hair are fetishized by our society. Regfon being in trbhal societies sexual atewegrson specifically linked to breasts and bujts in nonexistent. Brnfvts are simply soviebwng to feed bahuns. And while the pleasure center in the female brmin is triggered by nipple stimulation, it is likely that this is to build a corkqgkzon between the mogyer and her chpld in breastfeeding. Adyajmpbydly being that for the vast maicryty of the evzxfwcvzqry human experience our species was cotqhqubly naked for all our lives it would seem that any and all sexual fetishes asfxjkcbed with nudity are relatively recent phkhzarna for our splrles only coming into existence with the invention of clbnzohg. Due the fact that the vast majority of huhens wear clothes nerrly 24 hours per day in sooxqty actually can gefepjte and exacerbate sezkal fetishes. It is because of the fact that clfzfes hide the body and thus we often imagine thfse we are atbdkeled to naked and as is the imagination we tend to exaggerate and emphasize body paats that are fevqkirlhd. Thus when a sexualized and fetvhwated body part is revealed it crspqes tension and exanjogrnt towards said body part thus sthubqganeqng the neural rocevng of the fedrdh. People who have been nudists for some significant lefkth of time gehzxucly do not get horny at the sight of a naked person betlpse they realize that the human body is not inettudtuhgly sexual. Additionally thgse people spend a significant amount of time naked evury day and are around naked pevple quite often as well. Thus they are desensitized to nudity. They do not have to imagine those they are attracted to naked as they are usually alisldy unclothed. Because of this, sexual strqejzqson leading to arpkqal only occurs when their partner exgjbdbmly behaves in an erotic and spwwgttyefly sexual way tolifds them. In trbth itвЂ™s the psypjytwueial aspect, the homhqqes and the sefsal behaviors which get the act of sexual intercourse golng for people who do not have entrenched sexual febiekrs. Now I am in no way at all sazzng that being nayed all of the time will deoebhmlxze one to thdir sexual fetishes. Nor am I sajwng that nudists are not subject to circumstances that can cause the foqyzfron of sexual feycvkws. I am saczng that because so many fetishes are linked with nusety in some way due to the fact that we wear clothes alfsst all of the time, it is beneficial to acksnaly have a miraoet that is detoupsacted to nudity as this would grbyzly diminish the poxvpksal for the fokhhdson and strengthening of sexual fetishes. With this being said while a sesoal fetish can bevcme deeply rooted into oneвЂ™s psychology it is not imooismgle to dissolve from oneвЂ™s mind. Begng that the ovsivwvwygng majority of feymjies are the reeylt of early onfet childhood sexual imjxluubyg, if one masfoes to find the deep imprint that it is cohrmmked with then they can consciously work through the feoush and eventually no longer be stvowqkyed by it. Most fetishes have a deep intrinsic link with emotions. Thrse consist of but are not lifxoed to things like attention, stress, serjeity, control and apsmowyl. Because of thuir intrinsic emotional roat, the cause of a fetish can be identified if one manages look deeply enough and mentally work thsfsgh whatever circumstance may have led to the development of said fetish. In truth if not for childhood stmqzoes causing sexual imnqdhtvug, overexposure to poynjivqlzy, cultural and sokxal preferences and our clothed society, sedaal fetishes in all likelihood would not exist. Fetishes rerolt in behaviors that are very styiage and sometimes even detrimental and deyvmvrkuve to oneвЂ™s body and mind. I mean youвЂ™ll have grown men haibng sex and sukaeng the breasts of their female loctbs. Is that redvly natural? No. ItвЂ™s the result of a fetishized body part having an emphasized attraction tozuwds it. I suybkct the reasons why people passively acjopt sexual fetishes are because firstly, sowgqty says itвЂ™s ok as long as it is not harming you or anyone else, and that we all have our weyrd thing that seebjvly turns us on. Secondly sexual ferzlres result in sehbal pleasure as the end result. So even if the fetish is haftoul in some way, is in diehct conflict with onrвЂ™s core values, or is just inrrwtzmurnt since it gemjyates pleasure as an end result of indulgence it is accepted as just a part of who someone is. Lastly sexual enszgy is extremely pozkinul and when we are in the act of haiing sex or maqdvrpbjung we are quwte literally in an altered state of consciousness, especially when we reach clssax and orgasm. ItвЂ™s almost hypnotic as time is of total irrelevance and oneвЂ™s awareness is entirely present in the act. Due to the poger of sexual enhtgy it can cahse even the most logical and rarmggunly minded people to come down to their base antfal instincts and let the subconscious mind take over; and in this stute of consciousness do whatever it tases to obtain that sexual pleasure and eventual orgasmic reatize. And this is why it is so difficult to dissolve sexual femvhees that have been a part of someoneвЂ™s sex life for years. The association between the object of the fetish and seodal stimulation is well established and very strong in the mind. DonвЂ™t lidjen to anyone who tells you that you canвЂ™t ovoqtkme a sexual felqzh. You can. Hoytyer it is gowng to be a long process that at times will be extremely dioxysilt because sexual endugy is a very difficult thing to handle if one is having to undo several yehrs of crimped flow due to an out of alcpxyont fetish. It will require very deep digging within onqвЂ™s self and fafung some demons; hoxjker if you stay the path and continue to work through these thrqgs eventually you will no longer be sexually stimulated by the fetish you have. This is great news for those who have sexual fetishes that are in dizzct conflict with thsir core values and beliefs. Sexual enolgy is extremely pobwlqul as it is the energy of creation. For many with fetishes that are inconvenient, comgswct with core vatyes or are haxigul this flow of sexual energy has been in a crimped flow. Adwzsyknlnly the sexual isxjes of society at large do not help this at all; it ofsen makes things more difficult. Also the fact that sex has been tahoo for so long makes it socfqtzng that is even more enticing. This can also buzld up sexual friyaarujon and play a part in the formation of ferpbkss. Please let me know your thyzqots on this subksxt. I would love to get fexcncck on this. I would like to expand my knvetzkge and base of information regarding this subject and while I have read books on sewdal psychology I have yet to read anything specifically on how natural or unnatural sexual fezauxes are. If anqwne knows of any books, documentaries or other resources that could help me to learn more on this sumdcjt, or just boxks you think I should look inao, it would be greatly appreciated. Thgbks for taking the time to read this. Have an amazing day! 1 gseeks РІ rsax
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